Lessons from a Kitty
Karen Ehman

“Formerly, when you did not know God, you were slaves to those who by nature are not gods. But now that you know God—or rather are known by God—how is it that you are turning back to those weak and miserable principles? Do you wish to be enslaved by them all over again?” Galatians 4:8-9 (NIV)

“Aw, come on Mom and Dad….pleeeeease!” During a summer’s afternoon drive, our kids spied a “free kittens” sign and begged for their first real pet. My husband and I caved and pulled into the farm house. After weeks of pestering, our offspring had won. We would get a kitten and they would get the chance to prove to us that they could handle the responsibility.

Eight-year old Spencer chose a tiger kitten and proudly toted him out of the barn. When he gently placed the somewhat frightened fur ball in the car, the kitten became frantic and dug his claws into Spencer who let out a scream and let go of the cat. It scurried under the driver’s seat, crawled up near the clutch, and somehow managed to squeeze through a small opening and climb into the dashboard where we could not see him.

We were afraid that if we started the car the cat would be history; a victim of the roaring engine. My husband assured us that the kitty was safe from its gripping gears. We waited a while before making the trip home with the stowaway up in the dash. Once home, he still wouldn’t come out. We pulled the car into the garage, opened the driver’s side door and put some milk and food out on the garage floor near the car. Surely the little kitty would get hungry and come out. He did - a full two days later.

We promptly named him Dash and he became a normal, playful kitty. But we noticed something about Dash. Whenever he wanted to escape, he would crawl up under the engine of our van and sleep. When we’d start the engine, he would dash out and run into our woods. Apparently, even though his first few minutes with us had been traumatizing, they had made a lasting impression on him. When he wanted to take a break from life, he went back to what felt familiar, even though it initially had been a horrible experience.

Sometimes we are no smarter than that ridiculous cat. When we feel like throwing in the towel for a while, we revert back to a not-so-nice habit just because it feels familiar - a brownie laden with ice cream and hot fudge eaten in secret, a somewhat steamy show or questionable novel, or perhaps a phone conversation to “let off some steam” while engaging in some gossip. Our hidden habits and besetting sins entice us to participate just a little. They promise to offer us rest and a feeling of familiarity, but in reality they are a dangerous place for us to lodge. Today’s verse, in fact, calls things that enslaved us before we knew God “weak and miserable.” And that is just what they make us - weak and miserable.

Determine today to stop hiding out in old destructive habits. Instead, come out into the light of His glorious grace and learn a new method of coping. Run to Him instead of to the old and familiar. His Word is alive and active. It can help us break bad habits and form new and godly ones.

Dear Lord, forgive me for running to the familiar instead of to You. Break sin’s hold on me as I strive to break old habits for Your glory alone. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Related Resources:
Redemption by Karen Kingsbury and Gary Smalley

A Life That Says Welcome, Simple Ways to Open Your Heart & Home to Others by Karen Ehman

Do you know Him?

Application Steps:
Recruit a friend to help you resist becoming enslaved by old habits. Call her for prayer when you feel yourself slipping back into wrongful ways.

Write the power verses below on an index card. Keep them near you so you can refer to them. Memorize them as weapons in the war against your flesh.

Reflections:
To what familiar habits to you regularly revert? Write them down. Next come up with one or two alternative actions you could take the next time you are tempted to participate in an old pattern.

Power Verses:
1 Corinthians 10:13, “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.” (NIV)

Romans 6:16-18, “Don't you know that when you offer yourselves to someone to obey him as slaves, you are slaves to the one whom you obey—whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness? But thanks be to God that, though you used to be slaves to sin, you wholeheartedly obeyed the form of teaching to which you were entrusted. You have been set free from sin and have become slaves to righteousness.” (NIV)

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5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

When I am tempted I always i find it during a time of stress. I need to get out of the house in a hurry , or we are running late to the docotrs appointment. It's during those moments that i find myself stressed and short tempered. I yell at my kids and use harsh words i would never normally use only becuase I think it is going to make them move faster in some way. I allow my frustration to seep out on them in the form of hurtful words.

Dear God,
I pray that you help me to rest in you during times of stress. I don't want to lose my temper, that is of the flesh and I want to follow after you whole heartedly. Give me extra patience during those times and help me to fall into you instead of try to do it on my own. Also help me to plan better so that I can not create times of stress that are unnecesary. Thank you fro my family. be with my husband today and give him strength and wisdom as he speaks in to the lives of his patients and clients. I pray my prayer card over each of my children. Draw them into you so they can have a close relationship with you that is one that has a right view of who you are. Thank you for them, grow them into the man and woman you desire them to be. Keep them away from the things of life that are hard lessons to learn the hard way. Let them words that Pete and a I speak into their lives to be words that direct and guide into healthy places.
Amen

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow!!!! When I read the part of going back to the familiar even though it hurts...I began to cry. You see I have been doing just that - going back to my old ways over the last month. I know that it is wrong, yet I have felt so alone and hungry for attention that I walked that familiar path for a few moments of attention, knowing in the end it would be painful in so many ways...

Thank you for sharing this little story. I think it will help me to not run scared back to the sinful familiar path of my past, but hopefully run quickly to the safety of my Jesus.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

i was saved when i was nine and i knew what it was like to live in my father's home i thought there would be a better place for me out there, but i realized that there is no place like home and whenever i am tempted to run away from my father's place i think about what it was like to live like a pig and lived with pigs. thank you for this "lessons from a Kitty" and god bless

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you for the story. It helps put God's words into propective. I want to go home and share with my children. And to reflect on why God places us where we are. There is no coincedence only God incedence. God give me strength to live and love my neighbor as I want to be loved.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I ALSO LIKE KITTY WHEN STRESSED ANGERED FEELING UNSURE OF THING WILL SADLY TO SAY GO BACK TO FAMILIAR SOMETIMES BAD PAST WAYS AND JOURNEY DOEN THE ROAD AGAIN.I DONT WANT TO BUT I AM WEAK REALLY IT SHOWS ME I NEED TO TRUST JESUS MORE AND DESPERATLY LEARN TO CLING TOTALLY TO HIM. IM A GRANDMOTHER RAISING GRANDCHILDREN I PRAY FOR ALL LIKE ME .ITS HARDER CAUSE WE SEE MORE NOW OF THINGS WE COULD HAVE DONE BETTER WITH OUR BABIES BUT WE ARE WHERE WE ARE . PLEASE PRAY FOR ME I TRULY LOVE JESUS IM 50 NOW AND HOWEVER LONG I HAVE LEFT I WANT IT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE FOR JESUS. MY CHILDREN 5 OF THEM ONE IS TRYING THE OTHERS AS THE KITTY SLIDE BACK. MY GRANDSON 8 RECENTLY GOT SAVED AND BAPT. AND THE 2 YEAR LOVES SUNDAYSCHOOL. I SO WANT TO LEAD AND TEACH THEM HOW NOT TO ONLY BE HAPPY BUT TO TEACH THEM HOW TO GROW IN JESUS SO THEY WILL BE EQIPPED TO CARRY ON THEMSELFS. INSTEAD OF ASKING DID YOU HAVE FUN AT SUNDAY SCHOOL OR CHILDRENS PROGRAM ASK THEM WHAT DID YOU LEARN THEN YOU WILL KNOW IF THEY ARE GRASPING IT FOR THEMSELVES. I KNOW THIS WAS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED YOUR PRAYERS AND I PRAY I MAY HAVE HELPED SOMEONE IM SO GLAD YOU WROTE THIS AND HOW YOU RELATE TO ADULTS BUT KIDS TO

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